Sunday, July 10, 2011

Opposite Attraction

I think it's a pretty widely accepted idea, that in relationships, opposites definitely attract one another.  Intrigued,  interested in another's views, and opinions, one becomes enlightened to perspectives and ideas not considered before.  Nutshell.  The reality is that, while all the magnetic attraction, at first, may spark personal stimulation and interesting personal growth, there's always the same bottom line--is there communication?  Without it, without it's skills, the attraction fades over time, and eventually, the relationship may slip into an overall unwillingness to understand.  There's no longer an interest, and unless, there is a desire to change, a breakdown in the relationship is inevitable.  Much more important than any opposite attraction; is the main attraction---communication!  Communication is the mortar that bonds the two within the forming foundation.  No matter how much an opposite attracts in the beginning, the only true lasting attraction, in a seasoned relationship, is sharing.  Sharing, whether through conversation, or the sharing of similar dreams and interests, allows intimacy to develop a splendid and unique connection...

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